The Way God Loves
A goal of The Spiritual Exercises is to love and see the world the way that God loves and sees the world. We pray this desire at the end of The Exercises at the contemplation to attain divine love. It is what we reach for and hope for and hope to attain so that we can love the way that God loves. We learn to love by watching how God loves us.
Ignatius and Teilhard would sum this up as: to find God in all things.” We immediately immerse ourselves into the existing loving relationship with God and creation.
Two spiritual truths
- Ignatius tells us that love ought to manifest itself more by deeds than by words.
- Love consists of mutual communication between two persons. Each share with the other. The one who loves and gives communicates to the beloved and the beloved in return does the same.
God, as lover, loves us. God's loving is an unconditional generous sharing of all that God loves. This is done in deeds not just in words.
Contemplation: Learning to Love the Way God Loves
God expresses God's self by creating a universe that reflects God's love. This self-expression created a universe that could delight in it as it grew and evolved over billions of years. God delighted in the humid race that emerged from the evolving earth so that they could become conscious of how much God loves them.
Imagine yourself surrounded by an omnipresent God holding the human race and loving existence and wanting to be lovingly involved with them, giving countless gifts to people, individually and collectively.
Ask for the grace to discover the thousands of ways that God loves you and all of creation. Ask for the grace to experience in your body and soul what it feels like to be so loved uniquely and unconditionally by God. Ask for the grace to feel tangibly connected to God. Ask for the grace to be immersed in God and God's creation and to feel deep gratitude and wonder at the boundless love God shows in every moment.
The first stage of loving: Giving Gifts
God gives gifts. Love is shown in action. Giving gifts is an action. All of creation is God's gift to us. Creation is the original blessing.
If you find your gratitude and wonder naturally flowing in response to one of the divine gifts, stay with that feeling. Who may spend the entire time with this single movement. Do not feel as if you have to cover all of the seven areas listed below. The graces from this exercise can never be exhausted.
- Consider the gifts that astronomy has revealed to us. Ignatius may not have been aware of the extent of this revelation as he had no sense of the vast number of galaxies for the age of the universe.
- Observe the gifts God has been giving us that the life sciences had revealed. All of these gifts are active, interactive, and evolving. As life forms kept evolving in complexity over time - From sensation to perception to movement to social life - We observed that consciousness became the primary emergent property of life. Evolution keeps moving forward.
- Recognize evolution at work in all things. Saint Paul tells us that creation is still incomplete and still in process. Through discoveries in science and technology, we recognize the fundamental law driving creation onward and upward.
- God's gifts on the microscopic side reveal by science show the incredible complexity and activity of each living being - the human genome, the trillions of cells that live in our body, each cell itself a living being with the highly complex intra active life.
- Recognize the gifts of the earth itself. All the beauties of mountains, plains, and skies. All the power of tornadoes, hurricanes, tsunamis, floods, deserts.
- Reflect on God's gift that flow from human consciousness and society, such as civilization, music, art, literature, society, communication, transportation, recreation, science, mathematics, architecture, ecology, entertainment, film, radio, Internet.
- Consider all the gifts you have personally received - talent, skills, education, opportunities, friends, family. Remember your five sentences as well as memory, intelligent, willpower, imagination, choice, the ability to love and make commitments, the ability to accomplish things, to create things that never existed before, could build teams, to worship.
At the conclusion of your prayer you are invited to reply to God, the divine giver, in a personal conversation.
You're invited to show God how you have felt and grasp this first level of love. You might want to say something like this:
I stand in wonder and gratitude at the number and immensity of the gifts you have given to me and to all creation. I also am one of your gifts. It would have been so easy for me not to have been born, never to be conceived. Here I am, uniquely loved by you. Even before I existed, you know me by my name. Give me the grace to love you and your gifts, and that is enough for me.
Poem: Primary Wonder, Denise Levertov
Days pass when I forget the mystery.
Problems insoluble and problems offering
their own ignored solutions
jostle for my attention, they crowd its antechamber
along with a host of diversions, my courtiers, wearing
their colored clothes; cap and bells.
And then
once more the quiet mystery
is present to me, the throng's clamor
recedes: the mystery
that there is anything, anything at all,
let alone cosmos, joy, memory, everything,
rather than void: and that, O Lord,
Creator, Hallowed One, You still,
hour by hour sustain it.