Dara has been home now for a month and she and her boyfriend are settling into a routine. There has been an adjustment as they are trying to set up a proper schedule for home aid and visiting nurses. She is sleeping very well and is sitting in the sofa or in her wheelchair most of the day, which causes her some body aches and strains. She is eating well and staying hydrated. She follows all the news on TV and is quick sharp, with excellent hearing. She appreciates all the attention and work of her boyfriend to make life comfortable and pleasant for her.
Dara at times speak well. When she has energy and speaks loudly, she is audible, but a lot of times she mumbles and speaks softly. Sometimes people do not call her because they get uncomfortable when they realize they cannot understand her. There is a way of asking questions to her so that you can know the direction of her speech. She actually has a lot to say.
Friday, October 2nd is our oldest sibling's birthday, though she has returned to God. She and Dara were close in age and the last time we spoke, we talked of the times they Trick or Treated together. Dawn Mari would get excited about all the candy and her excitement as contagious because it was so raw and so natural. Dara's favorite holiday in Halloween. A few weeks ago, I sent some Halloween lights, decorations, and a table runner, and a gnome. I just sent two more gnomes that should arrive on Dawn Mari's birthday. I'm sure it will surprise her. These were gifts from a good friend who works for the Boston Red Sox, and they are two gnomish Red Sox players. We make each day of our happiness. Happiness is something we have to choose each day. When we share in someone's suffering or do something to make the day lighter, we realize how much joy it brings us. I'm grateful for the friends and loved ones who support my sister and one another. There is a great deal of goodwill in this world, and when we remember that goodwill and offer it to God, something remarkable happens.
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